All Because Of One Little Tramp...

Sigh, sigh, sigh, all because of NB, a little tramp, some trash that we knew a few months, made my relationship with TR have a crack. Sigh!

Ungrateful Friend...

On May 24, NB shared a secret with me and in confidence as I am the HR Manager. NB said that TR tried to tackle her, saying that he missed her and want to get to know her more. She told me she said no. She further told me that TR wanted to make a trip back to see her, and if he marries her, she will not be No 2 but No 1.
Hearing this was like a knife piercing into my heart. Worst was I can't confront TR about this, as I have promised NB. And on the other part, who am I to question him? I have told TR that if he found someone, just let me go. And NB is prettier than me, same race with TR, thinner, no point fighting for TR, I sure will lose. Why waste the energy. So I thought I would only tell TR end of December when NB changed job.
Last week, when I asked NB, if TR is still tackling her. She said a bit.
Then last week, TR told me that someone owes him money. Then on Tuesday, he said that again. This time I asked who and he told me NB. He said that NB wanted to get be so friendly, cried and asked him to help and he lended her RM700. And now when he looks for her, she didn't pick up her handphone and when called the office, she said she is busy.
I cannot tahan already, doing a quick summary of what NB had told me about S, I think really NB is questionable. So I told TR what NB had told me. I asked him it was true. He said no. I told him how i felt when I heard it, as I can't tell NB about our relationship. He said if he is really tackling her, he would not have gone out lunch with me. He was angry that she bad mouthed him. He confronted her about this and of course NB denied having said that.
For 2 days TR didn't want to have lunch with me. He said he has something to do, but i found out that he went out with Z. Sensing that something is not quite right, i pressed him and ask if everything was alright. Yesterday he said his mood is not good. Today he gave me the same treatment, and this time he did say that I already have a perception that he is that type of people. Give me a few days to relax. :( I am so sad and hurt.
To NB, as I have posted in FB, the world is very small, so be truthful, sincere, faithful & respectful always. You will not know who knows who.

To be continued...

A Quick Ride

Today, I joined Rosli & Intan for lunch, The toughest part was where to go and eat. We couldn't decide, but Rosli said, he will drive and let us think. He drove until the car wash, and we waited for a moment. Then i said, i have a place, but Rosli, you are going to kill me. Say... How about eating in Castro? But you have to drive your car back to the parking space. So we warmed up the car and we walked down to Ground Floor.

Hot Chocolate

Celebrated TR's birthday with dinner at Hot Chocolate. I guess he was surprised when the chocolate cake came with the candle. The environment at Hot Chocolate is even nicer at nite. After that he accompanied me back. I wore something new bought from Kateye 2 weeks ago. He said today you look very nice. :)

Roaming 4

I spoke to S to give me a unit in Ria Apartment, Genting, since we never took the "days" granted to us for years. The day , April 7, was selected by TR. I took 2 movies to watch and we ta pau from Village Park. Spent the entire day in the apartment. Enjoyed the cold weather, and did clear up some doubts. On the way down, went to Gontong Jaya for roti canai and coffee. Came back and was "too early", went to Giant to lepak.

Unbelievable & Shocking Find - Roaming 3

Took leave and planned to go Amber Court. TR parked his car at my place. It was a rainy morning. We went to Village Park for breakfast. When we opened the door to the apartment, I saw white patches on the carpet. As I stepped in, the carpet were soaked. Eeeeewwwwww! Everything was wet, even the sofa, the bed and the painting were moulded. Gosh! We then left, I was totally speechless, and we roamed to PD instead. What a journey! We watched 2 DVDs and just spending time with each other. Totally unexpected.

Capturing Every Moment

I started swimming last week, and I told TR to join me last week, but it was too short notice. He said next time. So on Tuesday, I invited him to join me on Wednesday. He said yes. I told him to bring his trunks & goggles. On Wednesday, he went to RSGC by bike and then I picked him up at the motorbike section. Loaded his backpack and helmet into my car and we drove to the pool area. When he got down, I asked him, aren't you taking your bag down? He said no. I asked, no trunks? He said, no, he doesn't have one. Then u just going to watch me swim? He said yes. Just want to come... who knows when I leave, you are busy or I am busy, can't see you. My heart skip a bit. And I felt embarassed, I am going to be in my swim suit, and he is going to see. Yuks! I swam about 6 laps, then got up to shower and change. When I dropped him off, i again said thank you and sorry he has to wait. He replied, no problem, I cuma nak jalan-jalan, & who knows next time we all bz ke, can't see each other. I told him, we can still meet here. Later at nite, i sent him a sms - thank you for spending time with me, It was sweet of u. Totally a pleasant surprise. He replied - welcome. nanti bila bila free, pergi jalan jalan mana mana, stay 1 night. U nak ke? Wow! Where is this leading to??? We will see next Wednesday.

It's A Rumbling, Roaring Day At RK Group

It is a day full of "R"s, as posted on my facebook. Why?
Romi is tendering his resignation today.
Rosli is tendering his resignation today.
Both are from R-chitecture Department
Which means the R-chitecture Department may close in RK Group/ R-kitek Roslan
Letters will be given to Dato Roslan...
To make more "R"s to this occasion, Romi has to wear red...
And I might as well put my post in red too.

Let the day Roll... wait for more updates...

Valentine's Day 2011

Didn't blast the wish, only wish Jay, Keik Yee, Ming Ming & Tuan Howe & one or two people. At nite, Bala sms me, that was 1 something, already passed. Just good examples of "Kacang lupakan kulit". Lunch time, if Romi didn't call me for lunch, I thot it was ok, I can eat by myself. I saw Romi walked to the reception, and then he walked back and ask quite loud from Chris's place, u tak nak makan ah? I yelled back, nak. So I went out with 3 men (Romi, Rosli & Zul), Malay men and married men. And we ROAM and had ikan bakar at Keramat. I think this is my first time to Keramat. Very nice ikan bakar and kerabu. Tea time with them again. So indirectly, I did spend time with him after all on V Day.

CNY Loe Sang No 3 - February 13, 2011

We didn't purchase lunch coupons to join the MWF for lunch. I thought after the 2nd service, I would go to SS2, buy things at Watson, go Kamdar and then have lunch there. But Mrs Ling sms and invited 3 of us to attend the lunch at Pik Wah. So I drove from SS2 to Mother Church.

CNY Tea Gathering - February 12, 2011

Joyful Choir had a tea time gathering at Perry & Susan's house. Susan is a good cook, she made so much food. Just simply delicious! After that I stopped by Axis Atrium to meet Romi. He helped me buy a compatible battery for my new camera and I went to pick it up.

CNY Loe Sang No 2 - February 12, 2011

CNY lunch with Melody Choir at Hai Thien Restaurant, Equine. What a sumptous lunch & all the way there!

CNY Loe Sang No 1 - February 10, 2011

Parents and I hosted a dinner for Han Lin, Andrew, Joseph, Rev & Mrs Ling, Rev & Mrs Teoh at Janbo Restaurant in Wentworth Hotel. On this night, I received Henry's latest album and my new assignment.

Roaming with Romi Part 2

I wanted to go to collect medicine for my parents from the pharmacy, but there is no parking and i need someone to be in the car. I dragged Romi with me and we roamed to Puduraya. Then we were looking for food and we decided to go to Low Yat. Went there to check out the Panasonic Lumix camera. it is cheaper there, only RM1250.00 and available in 4 colours - silver, black, red and brown. Then went to buy DVDs, Romi went to check out some monitors and in less than half an hour, we left. Not much choices to eat, so we went to Belanga to eat. Came back at 2 something!!!! CNY mood already. Eve of the eve. Roaming with the HR Manager. Chuckle, chuckle.

An Uninterrupted Date with my PC

Today is Thaipusam, but I was in the office since 11.30am. Wanted to catch up on some payroll matters, and do some closing to prepare for the big wave. Big wave? Yes, the increments, bonus, etc. I did a lot today, even Joyful choir stuff. Stephen and John were around. I did ask Romi if he would like to accompany me. He came about 3pm and accompanied me till 6pm. He is such a sweetheart. I am really touched. It was really peaceful, no phone calls, even from mother! No phone ringing, no Anna's, Christine Chong's and Sharon's voices! Just so peaceful, with just my pc and people close to me. Nice...

And There Is Light...

Knowing him for 3 years... our relationship went from colleague to friendship. A person whom you can rely on. When all decided not to come, he is there. He has done the water pipe at PD, modify and repaired the locks. Wow! In my house, it took me lots of courage and thick face to ask him to help again to change the kitchen basin tap. He did, a few attempts and even the toilet tap and pipes. Then after that, he helped me change all the bulbs in the garden, and walla, there is light. Such a handyman... a great husband to any lucky woman.